The Action Plan

Daily actions will kick off with the Blessing Dance, followed by reflecting at least five times a day on how to make Tananarive feel cherished and revered. The choice of the word “worship” is intentional, as she embodies the Divine Feminine in my life.

Gratitude Practices

To sustain this energy, I must immerse myself in gratitude for having her in my life multiple times each day, drawing appreciation from every facet of my existence.

Setting Intentions

My aim is for Tananarive to experience unparalleled love, appreciation, desire, and support throughout her life. This journey will also help me understand how to cultivate these feelings within myself.

Building Confidence and Courage

This journey requires me to confront my fears—be it rejection, exploitation, or losing control. The resolution lies in embracing COURAGE and CONFIDENCE, ensuring I can manage my emotions. Regardless of the outcomes, I will care for myself. My self-love and survival instincts are in a state of “unconscious competence,” allowing my “needy, wounded, abandoned child” to feel secure in the nurturing presence of his “Father.” Consequently, I am forming a deeper bond with his “Mother.”

Lessons from the Past

If my assumptions hold true, I am merely applying the lessons I would have learned had my parents embodied a joyful, supportive, and loving partnership. Witnessing their example would have equipped me with principles to craft my own life. While adaptations are necessary, starting with a foundational “recipe” is far superior to improvisation, a method I have employed in numerous aspects of my life. However, I lacked role models in the realm of “relationship,” and this endeavor marks my first genuine attempt at rectifying that.

Anticipated Outcomes

If successful, this approach will not only enhance my relationship but also deepen my understanding of male and female dynamics, contributing to my development as a man. It will serve as a better role model for our children, as my “Inner Child” seeks a healthy balance of protective energies, thereby connecting me more profoundly with my creative essence.

I possess every reason to pursue this path, with CONFIDENCE that my actions will yield significantly more pleasure than pain.

The MAGIC Formula and Three Gates

This initiative aligns with the MAGIC formula and passes the THREE GATES test. Tomorrow, I plan to implement another framework to ensure its robustness—my anxiety about the process indicates deep-seated issues.

A Journey of Transformation

While challenging, I believe this journey will be transformative. In essence, I am asking for a rebirth, allowing my ego to be transcended by love and passion, uncovering a deeper version of myself—one that may have thrived in an ideal family within a perfect society.

This challenge is worthy of a Hero, and I embrace it wholeheartedly.

Namaste,

Steve

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